Cast A Spell To Rid A Relationship Of Negativity
No relationship is easy. No achievement is simply handed to you. A stable and satisfying relationship is most certainly in achievement. Therefore a satisfying and stable relationship requires work and regular effort. Some relationships have a little more conflict than others, but that’s no reason to give up and throw in the towel!
The unique benefit of casting spells and Magick, is the ability to tackle problems and handle conflict one more way, a more effective way. Whether the conflict is a simple argument, or an ongoing dilemma, nearly any problem in a relationship can be solved using Magick.
Despite the fact that this spell focuses on resolving a conflict within a relationship, insinuating at least 2 people are involved, the spell derives its energy from the practitioner. It’s important that you approach the spell with positivity and objectivity. This means needing to rise above the problem and conflict, and entering the spell from a place of peace and total concentration. Your positive energy will pay off threefold within the spell as you see the beauty unwind in a fruitful and satisfying relationship thereafter all throughout time.
Due to the nature of the spell being the removal and banishment of negativity and captivity of happiness within a relationship, it is most appropriate that this spell is performed within a waning moon phase. It is also acceptable to cast the spell on a new moon, as it is arguable that you are seeking a new start (or a fresh chance at resolution).
- In order to successfully cast the spell you will need a black candle and a white candle.
- You will also need a strip of paper (a note card or a Post-it note will also work), as well as a writing utensil of some kind.
- You will also require a focus incense (any general incense that will bolster the power and strength of a relationship or healing spell will work). Some good examples of a focus incense that will work wonderfully for this healing spell include frankincense, lavender, sandalwood, sage, or palmarosa.
- A cauldron or a metal bowl or dish is also necessary.
- A tissue is necessary as well.
Casting the Spell to Heal a Relationship
Step 1: Although it is not required, casting a magic circle is a wonderful way to strengthen the banishment properties of the spell. Depending upon how bad the relationship is, or how terrible the arguing has become, a practitioner may wish to cast more than one circle. For really bad situations, 3 circles is standard. After the circle is cast begin by lighting the incense.
Step 2: Enter meditation for 5 to 10 minutes imagining the problem or problems in the relationship. In your mind’s eye, imagine the arguing or conflict as it has unfolded, and imagine the way things have been.
Step 3: Open your eyes and light the black candle and chant the words “May this candle represent our conflict.”
Step 4: Using your writing utensil, begin drafting the problem onto the paper or note card. Describe the conflict and arguing that you are trying to eliminate in detail in this writing. This is not an opportunity to complain, as you are not complaining to anyone. This is also not an opportunity to be negative, the purpose of this ritual is to banish negativity. Thus, it is best to simply stick to the facts. If the problem is you are fighting over a 3rd party, write down on the paper something like “I want the fighting to stop over this third-party. I want this third-party banished from our relationship. I do not want to see this third-party interfering in our relationship any longer.”
Step 5: Place the paper in the cauldron or dish and pour the tiny pool of black wax formed at the top of the black candle into the center of the paper, then folding the paper in half. Keep the paper pressed together so that the wax “seals it shut like glue.” This may take a minute or two – do not try to pry it apart or “check to see if it’s dry” – just keep pressing the entire time and don’t stop.
Step 6: While holding the paper pressed between your fingers in one hand, use your other hand to light the white candle and chant the words “May this candle represent our resolve.”
Step 7: Close your eyes while you hold the paper still, and imagine your relationship resolving. Imagine the resolution of your conflict and arguments, and the formation of a healthy, happy, and fully satisfying relationship.
Step 8: Open your eyes, carefully and lightly write your name and date of birth on one side of the paper (which should now be firmly shut with the dried black wax).
Step 9: Write your partner’s name and date of birth on the other side of the paper.
Step 10: Chant “I bind our resolution so that we can be happy, now and forever” as you light the paper carefully with the white candle flame and place it into the dish or cauldron.
Step 11: Blow out the black candle while the paper is burning, allowing the white candle to remain lit.
Step 12: After the paper is thoroughly burned out and no embers remain, use the tissue to “dab” the ash from the cauldron or bowl, and dress it along the side wall of the white candle (which should still be burning).
Step 13: After the ash is all used up, chant “So mote it be” and close the circle if you have opened one, leaving the white candle lit.
Step 14: Allow the white candle to burn out naturally, being sure to monitor it along the way.
To make this spell stronger, it is advisable to choose the same size candles for both the white and black candle. It is also wise to ensure the candles are small enough to where the white candle can comfortably burn all the way through after the ritual without you having to leave the house before it’s finished. For this reason tea lights are great choices, but if the relationship is an true shambles, you may wish to upgrade to votives. The bigger the candles the stronger the spell, but you cannot leave the house with candles lit, not only would it be irresponsible and create safety hazards, but it also makes a spell ineffective.
Final Notes and Warning
Always stay home during the entire ritual and remember: just because you close the circle, doesn’t mean the ritual is over. If a candle stays burning, the ritual is still burning and not yet complete. If you absolutely MUST leave the house, do not blow out the white candle, snuff it out.
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